something cross my mind when i'm blogging the first paragraph and i changed the title to what you are seeing now...i've been watching all my friends from been single to getting a girlfriend one by one and i kinda felt lonely now..many of you might now be thinking "try to be loyal to one girl instead of going after so many at once" right?? well~~ i tried to but it's hard for me to stay onto one cause if for example you are talking to this girl you like, isn't it hard to act normal?? when you see her sitting there alone, you might want to go near her and talk with her but at the same time you don't want her to know that you are going after her!! it's tough!! so when i have that kinda feeling that she's not gonna like me or tried to avoid me, it's time to changed my target..besides it's pain in the eyes when i see all my friend bring a girlfriend out for a gathering and stuff..the worst is that, during a special holiday, most of them are busy dating with their love one and no time to deal with friends but not all though~~to make myself even worst, i can't stop thinking about the girls that i once go after and now are dating someone else who some of them is my friends..it's like sticking a needle in the heart when i heard them together..hence, that might be the reason why i'm rushing to get one for myself but i wonder how people go after girls so easily cause i can see some of them who are totally not match for one another and they are together!! does that mean i'm categorize in the "desperate" category?? i hope NOT!!
many people who knew me thought that i have a girlfriend based on the way i speak and communicate but let me clarify something here..i'm single for my whole life and might be the rest of my life..but let me entertain you reader out there, i have tried going after 10 different girls ever since i step into the college life..so can people live without a life partner?? i think that another issues to think of which can seriously make me moody~~whatever!! i'm going to sleep now!! hoping that tomorrow i would forget all this stuff...
3 comments:
Hey bro...why la suddenly so emo..it's kind of good when you met the one and only one...i dont believe that you will remain single your whole life...maybe you should learn to be confident in who you are...no worries la...you sure will find a partner soon...
hey steven or KK,hah. well, there is no such thing as what you are thinking now. i had this thought like yours too last time. what i learned is that no matter what if you think you like that person, you should keep going after her, dont let go halfway or else if she found someone else, you'd be regret. at least u tried to the max of ur capability. like ben said, be confident, slowly explore of what the person you are targeting likes, her interest, her preference of topics in conversation. start off as really normal friends first, take your time, slowly move on step by step, no rush bro.. Just a piece of my thoughts.. ^^
"i have tried going after 10 different girls ever since i step into the college life.."
probably one of this 10 might have like u or sumthing...bbut u give up too easily..when she think that u are not too bad.. u already change ur target..u never stick around long enough to let her notice ur good...to be there for her when she is happy or sad... Gal need to feel secure when she is with u.. so be there for her... Try not too be too aggresive when u approch a gal..she will get freak out oso.. If u like her..dun give up so easily la steven lau..
u will find someone if u are willing to put effort.. be there for her..eventually she might like u...
And stop changing ur target so often la..
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